Friday, May 17, 2013

The Dresser in the Garage


The Dresser in the Garage
5/17/13

A few years ago we moved “the dresser” and accompanying bedroom furniture to a storage unit of my mother in laws. It had been in my husband’s grandmother’s house for ages. After she passed away we began the process of “shuffling” furniture. You what that is right? When furniture that someone deems still “useable” wants to keep the family furniture but there’s no one to take it – they either don’t want or don’t have room for it. Look in your attic – silver, old china, baby clothes, etc. If you don’t have anything in your attic yet, take a peek into that of your parents. All that will be yours some day. It’s like winning the lottery…sometimes!

As I digress….

The dresser sat for 5 years in the storage unit, along with 4 mattress/box spring sets. Nasty. No one wants a used mattress, especially one that is 40+ years old (with that age entails).  Before my mother in law (now called the MIL) passed away, the hubby worked tirelessly to clean out the storage unit, chopping up old mattresses, throwing away the junk she didn’t remember was there, and otherwise doing the furniture shuffle.

At some point I looked at the dresser a bit more closely. It was in great condition, solid wood, and virtually untouched by the elements. Knowing my middle school dresser that I’m still using (yes, do the math) is busting at the seams, I decided the dresser needed to shuffle on over to my house. The hubby was delighted <insert sarcasm>. I thought it would be nice to have something that was hers in our home…i.e. something representative of her legacy.

That was over a year ago. My MIL has since passed, and there is a void in our lives that is hard to fill, and even harder to explain. Still, the shuffle has continued in the garage. From one corner to another, boxes stored on top, boxes removed etc. Meanwhile the middle school dresser is screaming at me “no more clothes” – kind of like when you tell the grandparents you’re full. Ha! It’s a challenge! I finally decide the shuffle needs to stop with me. Period.

The dresser was sanded this weekend, now it is waiting to be primed and painted. It felt really good to finally DO something with it…kind of giving it new life. Much like my relationship with my MIL, there are some cracks in the wood and a couple of scars that cannot be sanded out, but all in all, it’s solid.  Time to breathe new life into something from the past; time to give it a future. Progress is refreshing.

Pics later. Thanks for reading!  Wishing you….
Peace.Love.Interia.